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An Open Letter To My Kids' Bonus Mom

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I've been on the fence of writing this letter since the weekend my childrens'father remarried. The next weekend my kids talked and talked about how great the wedding was and I knew then I had to write it. Even with that it's takens me weeks to find the right words. But alas here it is. I didn’t want to like you, I didn’t want to know anything about you. I was okay with just knowing your name until my kids started talking about you. At that moment I wanted to know everything they knew. And I’m glad I do. I’m so thankful that you proceeded with respect for them. I was thankful you made them feel comfortable in their home. You didn’t invade, you didn’t dominate, you slid into their lives and let the flowers grow naturally. You’ve bonded with them all, from what I hear it’s a precious bond, one to not be broken. I appreciate that so much. So with all that said I say thank you for accepting my children the way you have. They have great respect and love for you. Whether